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Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan
It doesn’t sound like she has a court issued restraining order based on your summarization of events, so this is more like a campus personnel/campus police intervention; what I like to call, “the first steps”.
I would first advise her to begin keeping a log of dates/times/locations where he is presenting himself as well as the dates/times she notified school personnel and the campus police department; have her get names and titles….make people go on record. Have her present the documented details to personnel and the school police department again, and advise them they need to reconcile this issue or she will request a restraining order.
Once the restraining order is in place, one of two things will happen: a) he will either need to find another school study at immediately, or b) he will have court issued restrictions on how close he can be in proximity and any violation of that court order results in an arrest. The latter will present a difficult issue for the school to adequately monitor at all times, so it is likely they’d require him to unenroll. Faced with that threat, he may chill out, but as I’ve seen with these creeper types, they get hyper focused and fixated on the victim and it is problematic.
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This great advice and I appreciate you addressing it....very good to know and I'll make sure I relay for her next steps. I agree with you and doubt it was a legal restraining order, so documentation and re-notification is in order. Based on what he's said to others, this guy is definitely hyper-fixated. I've half a mind to confront him, but it's not my daughter and I know that would be the wrong COA