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Originally Posted by someguywithanm3
I know she's a widow, but this situation hurt me. I went from enjoying her company to wondering if we should break up.
I'm going to continue trying to fix things, but I'm not opposed to ending things if it gets too crazy. I went through a lot with my ex and I don't want to hang around for years to see if things improve.
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How long ago again was it when this happened to her? If it's fairly recent (last couple years)....it will still affect her. But it will get better over time.
If you think she's worth it, you just live in the moment and try to avoid situations that may prompt her to think along those lines.
She's been through a traumatic experience. But if she doesn't get better with those types of episodes, you shouldn't have to deal with it.
I would give it a little more time and see how soon she reacts that way again...that is if she does. You can gauge then if it's something she will get past....or if she's going to be a drama queen about it everytime.