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Originally Posted by Kelse92
I think everybody has their “dealbreaker thing”
For me I’m extremely independent. I grew up on a farm doing work outside with horses, to a certain extent I will do my own work on my car, and am an entrepreneur in business etc. The second that’s challenged or I get a condescending remark about it in a relationship, I don’t care how perfect the guy is, I’m out. I put up with a person who was like that for over a year and it was toxic. I don’t want to go down that road again.
For everybody it’s different though, there are some women want the guy to dote to them and do everything for them. So ultimately it just boils down to being around someone that understands and complements you.
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Whadd'ya mean with extremely independent? Some men want to keep her funnier looking half everytime around them, for what reasons ever, my personal nightmare. I like independent women very much because they would never give me the feeling to surround me too much and they're be able to go their own way in between a relationship. Most important for me is the fact that at all differences at least that the scissor is narrowing at the end so to speak.
It may sound a bit too wise but as a young man I'd looked at girls to get with the most matches in hobbies etc., now as very older I admit that the lowest sum of potential angers are the aim of a really good relationship.
Time is too short to waste it with constant troubles into my private life.
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Originally Posted by Now_Rudi
Uncanny. Same page. The girlfriend and I were talking Friday night and she mentioned that she feels like I hold back.....I do. I love and care for her. I will never do anything intentionally to hurt her, but I will never go all in again. It's great when you fall in love with someone and simply can't get enough of them. I also feel like everyone experiences this once in life. If you experience this more than once, you need to stop what you are doing and go see a counselor because something is wrong with you. If I stick my head in an oven and burn all my hair off, (this isn't what happened to my hair btw) you can bet your ass I will never do it again. People that want to go all in, have never experienced this level of crazy that it brings you to, or have issues to where they don't mind making the same mistake over and over again. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being somewhat emotional, we are human - we are suppose to feel emotion; however, emotion should never supersede intellect or common sense.
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Thats very well written man, most ppls won't face this truth were I bet nearly all went through, me included.