Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

premier3is · 01-07-2021, 12:37 PM

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I said it once and I'll say it again, I'm ecstatic that I don't have to date through forms of social media/apps/online, and honestly have never had to throughout my life. Which is shocking because I am pretty young. premier3is I get what the guys on here are saying, but lets face the facts here, that blows. I'm sure you know your worth better then anyone else here. We can all assume what the lady was thinking, but nonetheless it does not change the fact that she wasted your time for a reason unbeknownst to the rest of us. I agree with you 100%, If I am talking to someone I'd much rather talk to just them and not try to have a few others on the line as well. And to be blunt, regardless of opinions stated online I would continue to act in that manner. Just because one person is a shit person for dangling people does not mean we all have to adapt to be shit people as well. That is in fact how you end up looking like the USA where we all hate each other and are the laughing stock of the world. People should just be who they are and block out influence, especially that of a person they do not even remotely know. Social influence is shit and you couldn't change my mind if you tried lol.

Agreed. I'm just going to start to meet them within a week or 2. I learned my lesson not to go on for long without meeting someone, I'll take it as a learning experience.

Mein11 · 01-07-2021, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by premier3is

Agreed. I'm just going to start to meet them within a week or 2. I learned my lesson not to go on for long without meeting someone, I'll take it as a learning experience.

All my joking aside, this really is the best thing you can do. Especially for online dating. The longer you wait, the more time for them to talk to other dudes that will take the jump first, then you're out of the picture. Some may only talk to a single person (like yourself), but having your faith in that will reduce your options and chances of meeting women.

swagon · 01-08-2021, 02:27 PM

I mean, you kinda end up talking to multiple people on the apps anyway, intentionally or not... On the other hand, that cookie cutter advice of talking to multiple women at once to make one distract themselves from putting pussy on pedestal shouldn't be encouraged.

It's also what's wrong with online dating - because people have so many choices to choose from, they're quickly to dismiss people due to something that may not even be a big issue.

Just let it happen naturally and do it the way you're comfortable doing things. If you don't have the power of chatting up several birds at once, that's ok. I don't have the power or the energy myself. It's just too much. Some of those modern dating advisors can suck my dick. Hell, there are no rules in dating whatsoever. Reply whenever you want and to as many people as you want. Who cares if it's one or ten.

But, yeah, don't put pussy on pedestal.

Chat her up, get her off the app quickly, make plans, meet up. Rinse, repeat. Rejections are part of the game. I've become numb over the years, it's just how it is.

Dang3r · 01-09-2021, 10:15 AM

Hear, hear!

MKSixer · 01-18-2021, 05:45 PM

The word, "Connection" will autocorrect to "Contagion" if you aren't careful. Always check your spelling.

fiveohwblow · 01-18-2021, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

The word, "Connection" will autocorrect to "Contagion" if you aren't careful. Always check your spelling.

What of this contagious connection? Go on...

MKSixer · 01-18-2021, 06:47 PM

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What of this contagious connection? Go on...

Saying to a potential mate, "It would really be nice to make a contagion with you is apparently frowned on by the moderators on the dating site."

fiveohwblow · 01-18-2021, 06:50 PM

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Saying to a potential mate, "It would really be nice to make a contagion with you is apparently frowned on by the moderators on the dating site."

Where is their sense of adventure?!

MKSixer · 01-18-2021, 06:51 PM

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Where is their sense of adventure?!

I think it has to do with COVID-19. Everyone is humorless.

fiveohwblow · 01-18-2021, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

I think it has to do with COVID-19. Everyone is humorless.

It’s really killing my vibe.

Get it.

MKSixer · 01-18-2021, 06:53 PM

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It’s really killing my vibe.

Get it.

I see what you did there!

MKSixer · 01-18-2021, 06:56 PM

Sara504 !!!

OMG where have you been?!?!!!

Sara · 01-18-2021, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

Sara504 !!!

OMG where have you been?!?!!!

haha, hello

MKSixer · 01-18-2021, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

haha, hello

What have you been up to?!!

Sara · 01-18-2021, 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

What have you been up to?!!

Oh just same shit different day.

You guys been behaving in my absence?

Sara · 01-18-2021, 07:01 PM

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What have you been up to?!!

BTW, where in the SouthEast are you now?

and who the hell implemented this shit: "This forum requires that you wait 60 seconds between posts. Please try again in 26 seconds."

MKSixer · 01-18-2021, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Oh just same shit different day.

You guys been behaving in my absence?

When you say, "behaving", what do you mean? What is this thing, Behaving?

Sara · 01-18-2021, 07:02 PM

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When you say, "behaving", what do you mean? What is this thing, Behaving?

hahahaha, nothing's changed I see

MKSixer · 01-18-2021, 07:03 PM

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hahahaha, nothing's changed I see

PM'd you!!

dinonz · 01-18-2021, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

BTW, where in the SouthEast are you now?

and who the hell implemented this shit: "This forum requires that you wait 60 seconds between posts. Please try again in 26 seconds."

That shit's been there for years. I consider it a badge of honor if I can count down the 25 seconds without looking and have it tell me again I have to wait 1 more second.

MKSixer · 01-18-2021, 08:06 PM

Do not, repeat, DO NOT, ask about the hottie in the picture with the girl on the dating site. It NEVER goes well.

CTinline-six · 01-18-2021, 08:09 PM

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Do not, repeat, DO NOT, ask about the hottie in the picture with the girl on the dating site. It NEVER goes well.

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swagon Major General 13754 Rep 8,227 Posts Drives: F80 6MT Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: . iTrader: (0)	I mean, you kinda end up talking to multiple people on the apps anyway, intentionally or not... On the other hand, that cookie cutter advice of talking to multiple women at once to make one distract themselves from putting pussy on pedestal shouldn't be encouraged. It's also what's wrong with online dating - because people have so many choices to choose from, they're quickly to dismiss people due to something that may not even be a big issue. Just let it happen naturally and do it the way you're comfortable doing things. If you don't have the power of chatting up several birds at once, that's ok. I don't have the power or the energy myself. It's just too much. Some of those modern dating advisors can suck my dick. Hell, there are no rules in dating whatsoever. Reply whenever you want and to as many people as you want. Who cares if it's one or ten. But, yeah, don't put pussy on pedestal. Chat her up, get her off the app quickly, make plans, meet up. Rinse, repeat. Rejections are part of the game. I've become numb over the years, it's just how it is. __________________
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