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      07-27-2021, 03:19 PM   #10209
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How do you know the people who posted in that thread didn't get consent? I share things in this thread with those whom I have regular conversations with daily. Gloss over it if you have no interest in discussing exes. This thread is about dating, and the conversations are fluid. One could argue this entire thread is about validation. What now?!?!
Man you're triggered, do I need to send you some wax cross?

You're the only person to start posting exes and it didn't take, move on man. Maybe take it back to the other threads that were actually about that.
Since when is asking questions considered "triggered." Calm down cowboy.
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      07-27-2021, 03:20 PM   #10210
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When I hear of some of the experiences that I have, I typically try to put myself in the same mind space as the person telling the story. I may be expressing too much here, but I honestly don't think I could..."function" under some of that stress. I get that everyone has their different level of kink, but damn. At the same time, whatever works for two people to be happy together, let them have at it. Who am I to judge what works for others? I don't hear anyone judging me, based off what works for me; I have to give the same respect in return. Still, some of it just boggles my mind.
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      07-27-2021, 03:22 PM   #10211
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When I hear of some of the experiences that I have, I typically try to put myself in the same mind space as the person telling the story. I may be expressing too much here, but I honestly don't think I could..."function" under some of that stress. I get that everyone has their different level of kink, but damn. At the same time, whatever works for two people to be happy together, let them have at it. Who am I to judge what works for others? I don't hear anyone judging me, based off what works for me; I have to give the same respect in return. Still, some of it just boggles my mind.
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      07-27-2021, 03:28 PM   #10212
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      07-27-2021, 04:28 PM   #10213
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When I hear of some of the experiences that I have, I typically try to put myself in the same mind space as the person telling the story. I may be expressing too much here, but I honestly don't think I could..."function" under some of that stress.
Absolutely the truth. There's nothing wrong with sharing likes and dislikes with a partner, but semantics are very important. Get it wrong, and someone's head can get tangled into knots which can manifest itself in less than desirable ways.
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      07-27-2021, 05:46 PM   #10214
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When I hear of some of the experiences that I have, I typically try to put myself in the same mind space as the person telling the story. I may be expressing too much here, but I honestly don't think I could..."function" under some of that stress.
Absolutely the truth. There's nothing wrong with sharing likes and dislikes with a partner, but semantics are very important. Get it wrong, and someone's head can get tangled into knots which can manifest itself in less than desirable ways.
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      07-27-2021, 06:45 PM   #10215
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Yeah, but are you getting laid?
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      07-28-2021, 02:29 AM   #10216
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That has nothing to do with whether someone would like me because of how many "finger prints" I have versus a guy, because "cardio is cardio."

It's fine.

Women are allowed to look, but not touch. Guys can touch whenever, whatever and get high fives.
No, you got me wrong. For me at the end it doesnt really matter how many guys a gal might had have before me. Same right for both genders.
I understand the usual way of thoughts that a woman with many partners could maybe more unattractive because she had walked her way; but this ancient thinking and I am not related to too old habits.
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Nobody dating then??
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      08-01-2021, 10:14 AM   #10218
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Nobody dating then??
No, only porking!
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      08-01-2021, 12:50 PM   #10219
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*tumbleweed*

Nobody dating then??
I really have no desire to date right now. I am enjoying living vicariously through others. Speaking of which, where has pickle been?
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      08-02-2021, 08:58 AM   #10221
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Who was it that suggested I give surgeon a second chance?


What a difference a second date can make. After telling him no at first, he invited me to hang out with his friends yesterday. 4 bars and 1 restaurant later, it was a very nice time. He was actually talkative. His friends were great. Didn't think I'd be the only girl there, but hey.
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Who was it that suggested I give surgeon a second chance?


What a difference a second date can make. After telling him no at first, he invited me to hang out with his friends yesterday. 4 bars and 1 restaurant later, it was a very nice time. He was actually talkative. His friends were great. Didn't think I'd be the only girl there, but hey.
If he was the one you thought was a weirdo becuase of sugar it might have been me

Mine just accused me of cheating again so looks like I'm back on the market.
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If he was the one you thought was a weirdo becuase of sugar it might have been me
You know it's funny, everything he ordered at the restaurant was the most greasy, sugary, unhealthy shit lol. I did notice that he was a completely different person last night. The only thing he wouldn't take were the tequila shots his friends ordered at the bar.
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You know it's funny, everything he ordered at the restaurant was the most greasy, sugary, unhealthy shit lol. I did notice that he was a completely different person last night. The only thing he wouldn't take were the tequila shots his friends ordered at the bar.
I wonder if he picked up on your reaction last time and was trying to counter the disgust…? One does not just change eating habits to the other end of the spectrum overnight.
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Who was it that suggested I give surgeon a second chance?


What a difference a second date can make. After telling him no at first, he invited me to hang out with his friends yesterday. 4 bars and 1 restaurant later, it was a very nice time. He was actually talkative. His friends were great. Didn't think I'd be the only girl there, but hey.
There were a few of us that suggested you not jump to conclusions and give it another shot. I'm glad you did.
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I wonder if he picked up on your reaction last time and was trying to counter the disgust…? One does not just change eating habits to the other end of the spectrum overnight.
Or maybe he stays healthy a lot of the time, and just has cheat days occasionally...
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You know it's funny, everything he ordered at the restaurant was the most greasy, sugary, unhealthy shit lol. I did notice that he was a completely different person last night. The only thing he wouldn't take were the tequila shots his friends ordered at the bar.
Huge red flag, you always take your tequila shots, especially if they are paid for by someone else. Same principle as finishing everything on your plate - please kick this clown to the curb as soon as possible!!
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Huge red flag, you always take your tequila shots, especially if they are paid for by someone else. Same principle as finishing everything on your plate - please kick this clown to the curb as soon as possible!!
In his defense, he had already ordered a different drink, he didn't ask for the tequila, we were at the 4th bar at that point and I think he was done for. They started before me, and I was drinking with them for 5+ hours.
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