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      07-27-2021, 03:18 PM   #10231
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Ive actually been invited to be part of a party to that and even that was a hard pass. Im sure some people can make that kind of stuff work but my brain cant do the math.
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That's batshit insane to me; there is no way I would be able to process that type of information and not completely lose my mind. Sometimes ignorance truly is bliss.
When I hear of some of the experiences that I have, I typically try to put myself in the same mind space as the person telling the story. I may be expressing too much here, but I honestly don't think I could..."function" under some of that stress. I get that everyone has their different level of kink, but damn. At the same time, whatever works for two people to be happy together, let them have at it. Who am I to judge what works for others? I don't hear anyone judging me, based off what works for me; I have to give the same respect in return. Still, some of it just boggles my mind.
Indeed! I've hung out with swingers and they are an interesting bunch. I couldn't be in an open relationship, but some love the freedom it entails. I suppose it's a situation that comes down to allowing the openness or be cheated on, so people choose the former.
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      07-27-2021, 03:19 PM   #10232
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When I hear of some of the experiences that I have, I typically try to put myself in the same mind space as the person telling the story. I may be expressing too much here, but I honestly don't think I could..."function" under some of that stress. I get that everyone has their different level of kink, but damn. At the same time, whatever works for two people to be happy together, let them have at it. Who am I to judge what works for others? I don't hear anyone judging me, based off what works for me; I have to give the same respect in return. Still, some of it just boggles my mind.
Oh I'm not judging. But to me its like being gay. I am unable to even comprehend it. I get that it works for others, my brain just can't figure out HOW it works for others. But I assume (in the case of a gay man) he may think the same about me.

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      07-27-2021, 03:19 PM   #10233
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How do you know the people who posted in that thread didn't get consent? I share things in this thread with those whom I have regular conversations with daily. Gloss over it if you have no interest in discussing exes. This thread is about dating, and the conversations are fluid. One could argue this entire thread is about validation. What now?!?!
Man you're triggered, do I need to send you some wax cross?

You're the only person to start posting exes and it didn't take, move on man. Maybe take it back to the other threads that were actually about that.
Since when is asking questions considered "triggered." Calm down cowboy.
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When I hear of some of the experiences that I have, I typically try to put myself in the same mind space as the person telling the story. I may be expressing too much here, but I honestly don't think I could..."function" under some of that stress. I get that everyone has their different level of kink, but damn. At the same time, whatever works for two people to be happy together, let them have at it. Who am I to judge what works for others? I don't hear anyone judging me, based off what works for me; I have to give the same respect in return. Still, some of it just boggles my mind.
It's only kinky the 1st time!
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When I hear of some of the experiences that I have, I typically try to put myself in the same mind space as the person telling the story. I may be expressing too much here, but I honestly don't think I could..."function" under some of that stress. I get that everyone has their different level of kink, but damn. At the same time, whatever works for two people to be happy together, let them have at it. Who am I to judge what works for others? I don't hear anyone judging me, based off what works for me; I have to give the same respect in return. Still, some of it just boggles my mind.
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When I hear of some of the experiences that I have, I typically try to put myself in the same mind space as the person telling the story. I may be expressing too much here, but I honestly don't think I could..."function" under some of that stress.
Absolutely the truth. There's nothing wrong with sharing likes and dislikes with a partner, but semantics are very important. Get it wrong, and someone's head can get tangled into knots which can manifest itself in less than desirable ways.
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      07-27-2021, 05:46 PM   #10238
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When I hear of some of the experiences that I have, I typically try to put myself in the same mind space as the person telling the story. I may be expressing too much here, but I honestly don't think I could..."function" under some of that stress.
Absolutely the truth. There's nothing wrong with sharing likes and dislikes with a partner, but semantics are very important. Get it wrong, and someone's head can get tangled into knots which can manifest itself in less than desirable ways.
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That has nothing to do with whether someone would like me because of how many "finger prints" I have versus a guy, because "cardio is cardio."

It's fine.

Women are allowed to look, but not touch. Guys can touch whenever, whatever and get high fives.
No, you got me wrong. For me at the end it doesnt really matter how many guys a gal might had have before me. Same right for both genders.
I understand the usual way of thoughts that a woman with many partners could maybe more unattractive because she had walked her way; but this ancient thinking and I am not related to too old habits.
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