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| 01-31-2010, 11:08 AM | #67 | |
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| 01-31-2010, 11:39 AM | #68 | |
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and this does not sound like it will end well....
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| 01-31-2010, 01:33 PM | #69 |
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Just feel her out. Make sure she's not playin you. If she's serious and changes her lifestyle for you, she's probably not a bad girl. Not all stripper are fucked up lol.
Btw, you said she drives a stick 328? I hope it's an E36 or E46. If it's an E9x and she's really into cars, she might be lurking this forum as we speak lol. This is probably the largest forum for E9x bimmers. Girls have the internet and know how to search google too, ya know. Lol |
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| 01-31-2010, 01:35 PM | #70 | |
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| 01-31-2010, 02:29 PM | #71 |
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I'm not a stalker lol. I've known her a longer than a week. But we've been hanging out on a more personal level about a week.
And I am assuming you're not picking up well on Esarcasm I use from time to time. Her leaving her job came up after a serious conversation of whether we could take things further and if we could eventually date (mostly initiated by her). The fact that shes willing to leave her job made her a more serious mature person for me. If she didn't care she would just stay her distance and hook up and accept some cash here and there, but she doesn't. Don't know why you have to be pretty negative? Our experiences will always be different. Some girls may have treated you like crap and gotten away with it, but I treat each person on a case by case basis. So should I treat her as though she was a whore from the start? No. I got to know her like any other girl I've ever been with, she just falls under different circumstances. I have myself together; my priorities, my emotions. I'm pretty sure I can handle this. If it goes south so be it. I wouldn't even look at it as an "I told you so." Because the situation in which things end determines the outcome. If I came home one day and all my furniture was missing thats fucked up. But if it were to be a regular break up than why should I consider her and all strippers bitches from one experience? Relationships start and end until one works, its a fact of life. But all in all this one hasn't even really started yet, so I'm not going to think forward to the ending |
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| 01-31-2010, 02:38 PM | #72 |
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Let me just think loud for a moment. From your posts it appears that you're rather wealthy. Is it possible that she knew and/or knows who you are and how well you're doing? I don't want to be that prejudiced, but it seems like she's moving kinda fast, at least to me.
Best regards, south
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| 01-31-2010, 02:45 PM | #73 |
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I agree with southlight here. The tough reality is that the money from dancing is easy money and almost completely tax free. She might feel that she can give that up for a more serious relationship, but once the reality hits her, the story might take a dramatic turn. She might think that you'd be able to provide her with the level of income that she previously had. I would say if you were to proceed, proceed with caution.
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| 01-31-2010, 03:08 PM | #75 |
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Yeah true I've thought about her motives. It's just she checks out pretty well all over.
But at the same time I won't let myself cloud my judgement. I've done my best to keep somewhat of a distance so she can't get to close to visions of money. And since she is out of the downtown area I really doubt she would know anyone of the same circles and know who I am. At this point I'm sure she knows we don't know each other well enough to go full on and have me support her and move in. So slow and steady is key right now. If it turns out for the better only time can tell with a slow entrance into my life from her. If she drops in like a bombshell that would raise a red flag. But if she were a gold digger at this point she's only proven to be a terrible one btw I don't double wrap and don't think I would lol |
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| 01-31-2010, 03:14 PM | #76 | |
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| 01-31-2010, 04:59 PM | #79 | |
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| 01-31-2010, 05:40 PM | #80 |
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I'm not paying for her tuition. And I forgot you guys know her a lot better than I do at this time
She's a really good scam artist thanks for letting me know guys  |
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| 01-31-2010, 05:48 PM | #81 |
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Dude, you're "aware" of your emotions, her potential motives, and the probable outcome of this sort of a situation. As long as you have those 3 things you're not going to get burnt. Probably a good idea to keep the dates cheap for a while though. If she's not cool with Chipotle and a movie kick her to the curb
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| 01-31-2010, 06:50 PM | #82 |
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ha ha I hear you. I'm not about to take her for like a $300-400 dinner.
We had drinks at my place already tho so, I may have stepped in it already. But I'm hard to burn either way. I'm a brick wall of cuddle buddy |
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| 01-31-2010, 07:41 PM | #83 | |
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Its just some people that come in here are unkind and rude. I am totally open to honest opinions but the blanket statements and comments that come from people without any experience or knowledge on the situation are bothersome. Think what you like about your local strippers, but this one I got to know and I've made up my mind about her. |
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| 02-01-2010, 07:59 AM | #85 | |
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We need to shut down the internet. I can tell were this will lead. People being rude, unkind, all-knowing and saying things that don't make sense. Next thing you know, people will start posting pictures that are mean too. Cats may even start TALKING! And then....VIDEOS that are very unfunny about gingers...and other unfunny stuff too. I see this internet thing going nowhere but down hill. Kill it now before it gets out of hand!!! Good thing you spotted this trend, or we all would have been doomed, thank you good sir. Say hey to the ho' for us all, throw her a good one from 1addicts would ya. |
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| 02-01-2010, 10:06 AM | #86 |
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Lol all this for some stripper. I can see your next thread 30 days from now. "guys you were rude and unkind but you were right!"
You do realize this chick takes her clothes off for men on a regular basis and you're alright with that? Yo just do the deed and move on
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| 02-01-2010, 11:07 AM | #87 | |
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there is no maturity in this conversation! 
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| 02-01-2010, 11:29 AM | #88 |
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Are you "antongk" too? kinda similar stories. if not, read this for more advice.
http://www.e90post.com/forums/showth...light=stripper |
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